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Secure Attachment
Comfort Serum+

A primer-serum that strengthens your skin's barrier, hydrates, and improves makeup performance

Secure Attachment Comfort Serum+

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Our multitasking primer-serum strengthens your skin's barrier while extending makeup wear. It hydrates deeply, seals dry patches, and glazes dull skin with radiance, gripping makeup in place and delivering a dewy, second-skin finish that lasts.

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1.7 fl oz. / 50 ml

Mental health expert approved + dermatologist tested

  • Vegan & cruelty-free
  • Silicone & alcohol-free
  • No hormone-disrupting ingredients
  • Gluten & synthetic fragrance-free
  • No parabens, SLS, phthalates
  • Pregnancy safe

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How to Use

Step 1: Begin with clean, dry skin. Dispense 1–2 pumps of the serum into your hands and press gently into your skin to activate a hydration burst
Step 2: Use upward, gentle motions, smooth the serum evenly across your face, focusing on areas prone to dryness or redness. Allow the formula to absorb fully—about 30 seconds—for maximum hydration and barrier repair.
Step 3: Apply makeup or letting the radiant, second-skin finish shine on its own. For ultra smooth, extended wear, apply makeup immediately after the serum sets.

Full List of Ingredients

Water/Aqua/Eau, Glycerin, C13-15 Alkane, Propanediol, Caprylic/Capric Triglyceride, Polyglyceryl-4 Caprate, Aloe Barbadensis Leaf Juice, Sodium Polyacrylate, Ammonium Acryloyldimethyltaurate/VP Copolymer, Lauryl Glucoside, VP/VA Copolymer, Squalane, Helichrysum Italicum Extract, Hyaluronic Acid, Decyl Glucoside, Citric Acid, Aloe Barbadensis Leaf Extract, Camellia Sinensis Leaf Extract, Cucumis Melo Cantalupensis Fruit Extract, Cucumis Sativus (Cucumber) Fruit Extract, Elettaria Cardamomum Seed Extract, Jasminum Officinale (Jasmine) Flower/Leaf Extract, Lavandula Angustifolia (Lavender) Flower Extract, Pyrus Malus (Apple) Fruit Extract, Rose Extract, Rubus Idaeus (Raspberry) Fruit Extract, Santalum Album (Sandalwood) Wood Extract, Triethyl Citrate, Apium Graveolens (Celery) Seed Extract, Enteromorpha Compressa Extract, Fucus Vesiculosus Extract, Lithothamnion Calcareum Extract, Porphyra Umbilicalis Extract, Undaria Pinnatifida Extract, Sodium Benzoate, Potassium Sorbate,Phenoxyethanol, Ethylhexylglycerin.

SUSTAINABILITY PRACTICES

Secure Attachment contains biodegradable and plant-derived squalene as a sustainable replacement for silicone.


Sustainable glass sourced from Europe to minimize carbon footprint

Local Impact:
Formulated and manufactured in the USA in solar-powered facilities all under one roof minimizing transportation, reduces energy use, and lowering our carbon footprint.

Low Energy, High Impact:
We use cold processing for our formulas, which conserves energy and keeps carbon emissions to a minimum.

What causes skin barrier degradation?

When a breakup leaves your heart—and your skin barrier—shattered into a million pieces, we’re here to help you piece it securely back together, even stronger.

Insecure Relationships + Unhealthy Bonds

Anxiety from people pleasing and fear of judgement can lead to a cycle of stress, spiking cortisol levels. This weakens the skin barrier, triggering redness, dryness, and sensitivity.

Excessive Touching and Skin Picking

Self-consciousness about perceived 'imperfections' (it’s not you, it’s unrealistic beauty standards!) can lead to skin picking or excessive touching as a coping mechanism to feel in control. It’s an illusion—but the microtears, inflammation, and increased breakouts this habit causes are very real.

Lack of Boundaries

Just as a lack of emotional boundaries leaves us vulnerable to stress, a compromised skin barrier makes skin susceptible to dryness, flakiness, and external irritants.

Hormonal Changes

Sensitive, acne-prone skin often cycles through redness, pain, and rawness, making makeup feel like the only way feel relief from fear of judgment. But over dried hotspots creates uneven textures that disrupt a smooth makeup application, at the same time high cortisol and low oxytocin fuel insecurities, trapping us in a self-worth spiral. Agh!

The first primer designed to evolve with your skin emotions

Unlike other primers, Secure Attachment streamlines barrier repair with makeup grip in one step to simplify self-care for the long haul.

Cortisol Damage Repair

Anti-Fragility Bonding Complex:

  • Reduces cortisol-induced inflammation & stinging sensations by 79% within 5 minutes of application*
  • 67% of participants experienced relief within the first minute of use*
  • Preserves barrier rebuilding proteins & reduces stress markers by up to 93%*
  • Minerals and polysaccharides repair microdamage
  • Fortifies barrier increasing cohesion of dermal proteins by up to 42%, improving overall skin strength & resilience*

Squalane:

  • Mimics skin’s natural lipids to seal in hydration, reduce transepidermal water loss, and restore balance to compromised barriers
  • Strengthens moisture retention and acts as a protective seal to fortify the skin’s natural defenses

Aloe:

  • Calms irritation and redness with anti-inflammatory hydration while strengthening the barrier and resisting cortisol-triggered damage

    Fine Print: *Results based on in-vitro testing simulating cortisol-induced stress on human keratinocytes and fibroblasts. In-vivo testing conducted over 28 days on 24 women aged 20 to 65 with sensitive, reactive skin, measured improvements in hydration, redness reduction, and barrier function under controlled laboratory conditions.

Beta-Endorphin Stimulation

Green Tea:

  • Counteracts cortisol-induced oxidative damage, supporting the repair of the skin barrier.
  • Soothe sensitive, inflamed skin, reducing visible redness and irritation.

Anti-Fragility Bonding Complex

  • Stimulates beta-endorphins to calm and soothe the skin, reducing stress-induced irritation.
  • Algae actives synergistically relax stressed skin and enhance beta-endorphin activity
  • Stimulates β-endorphin production by 148% promoting skin relaxation and a healthier appearance*

Raspberry:

  • Packed with antioxidants and anti-inflammatory properties, enhances skin comfort and recovery.

    Fine Print: *Results based on a clinical study of 24 women aged 20 to 65 with sensitive, reactive skin, conducted under controlled conditions over 28 days onducted on human keratinocytes and neurons under stress-mimicking conditions.

Natural Hyaluronic Acid Protection

Anti-Fragility Bonding Complex:

  • Protects and supports the skin’s natural hyaluronic acid levels by reducing hyaluronidase activity by 42% for long-lasting hydration*
  • Reduces stress-induced degradation and enhancing hydration retention protecting glycosaminoglycans (GAGs), critical for moisture retention*

Hyaluronic Acid:

  • Attracts and binds water to the skin, complementing the body’s natural hyaluronic acid levels for immediate and long-term hydration.

Glycerin:

  • Acts as a humectant to pull moisture into the skin and prevent dehydration that can lead to hyaluronic acid depletion.

    Fine Print: *Results based on a clinical study of 24 women aged 20 to 65, conducted over 28 days. Participants included individuals with sensitive, reactive skin, prone to redness and irritation. Testing measured hydration, barrier strengthening, and soothing effects under controlled laboratory conditions

Stress Cycle Interruption

Anti-Fragility Bonding Complex:

  • Strengthens the skin’s adaptive defenses by reducing reactivity by 48% within 14 days and enhancing skin comfort*
  • Reduces key inflammatory molecules by 74% minimizing redness, swelling, and sensitivity.*
  • Reduces cortisol-induced stress markers by up to 93%, minimizing impact on skin function allowing skin to recover*

Cantaloupe Melon:

  • Antioxidant-rich, helps soothe and protect stressed skin from environmental aggressors.
  • A protective layer reducing the compounding effects of stress on the skin.

    Fine Print: *Results based on in-vitro testing on human keratinocytes and fibroblasts under cortisol-induced stress. In-vivo testing conducted over 28 days on 24 women aged 20 to 65 with sensitive, reactive skin measured improvements in barrier repair, inflammatory response, and hydration.

SOMATIC SKIN RITUAL

What does loving myself look like in action?

Secure attachment is the ability to trust that you can meet your own needs with care and consistency. This ritual integrates evidence-based practices from psychology and skincare science, blending techniques like EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) and IFS (Internal Family Systems) with a clinically tested formula to address both skin and self-insecurity. Designed to soothe sensitive skin and guide emotional regulation, it helps you build trust in your skin and your sense of self with every step."

Step 1: Ground Yourself

Cleanse your face with lukewarm water, feeling the refreshing sensations on skin. Take three deep breaths and gently tap your fingertips on your temples or jawline. Say aloud, "I am safe in this moment. My skin and I are worthy of care."

Step 2: Activate with Intention

Dispense 1–2 pumps onto your hands. Gently press into skin, giving extra love to areas that feel dry or irritated, imagining the hydration soothing both your skin and your inner critic. Ask yourself, "What does loving myself look like in action?"

Step 3: Connect and Reframe

Smooth across your face in upward, gentle motions, letting the silky texture hug your skin like an act of self-kindness.


Replace negative thoughts like "I have to fix my skin" with the affirmation "I am worthy of care just as I am."

If insecurities surface, gently tap along your collarbone or cheeks as you say these affirmations to help them stick.

Step 4: Lock in Safety

Allow the serum to absorb, forming a hydrating, breathable layer that feels secure and protective. Place your hands over your face and breathe deeply, saying, "I’m here for us. I will show up with care every time." Imagine this moment as building a foundation of trust—both in your skin and in yourself.

Step 5: Radiate Confidence

Apply makeup or let your natural glow shine. Looking into your mirror ask yourself, "How can I carry this feeling of self-love into my day?" Commit to noticing and replacing self-critical thoughts with small acts of self-kindness.

FAQs

What does “Secure Attachment Comfort Serum+” mean?

The name reflects the product’s dual benefits: it helps “secure” your skin barrier while creating a comforting, hydrated base for makeup or bare skin. It’s inspired by the concept of secure attachment in psychology, symbolizing trust, resilience, and care for yourself and your skin.

What makes this different from other primers or serums?

Unlike most primers that only prep skin for makeup, this serum offers long-term skincare benefits, including hydration, barrier repair, and cortisol damage protection. It bridges the gap between skincare and makeup, ensuring your skin thrives beneath the surface.

Can I use this serum without makeup?

Absolutely! The serum creates a radiant, second-skin finish that looks beautiful on its own while delivering hydration and strengthening your skin barrier.

Is it suitable for my skin type (e.g., melanated, oily, dry)?

Yes! This formula is universal. It’s lightweight enough for oily skin, hydrating for dry skin, and adaptive for melanated skin, helping to reduce redness or uneven tone without leaving a white cast.

Is this product cruelty-free, vegan, and sustainable?

Yes, it’s 100% cruelty-free and vegan, with sustainably sourced ingredients and environmentally conscious packaging.

Why should I follow the 5-step ritual? What are the benefits?

The ritual transforms skincare into self-care. It not only enhances the serum’s physical benefits—like hydration and barrier repair—but also incorporates mindfulness techniques that promote emotional regulation and self-compassion.

How often should I use this serum? Morning, evening, or both?

Use it morning and evening. In the morning, it primes and protects your skin; at night, it repairs and hydrates.

Do I need to layer it with other products in my routine?

It works beautifully on its own, but you can layer it with sunscreen in the morning or richer moisturizers at night if your skin needs extra hydration.

What if I don’t have time for a full ritual—can I still see results?

Yes! Simply apply the serum as part of your basic routine, and you’ll still benefit from its hydration, barrier repair, and makeup-gripping properties.

How does this ritual help with self-confidence and emotional regulation?

The ritual combines reflective questions and soothing touch, helping you connect with yourself emotionally. This process encourages positive self-talk and calms your nervous system, improving both your mindset and skin health.

What is “secure attachment,” and how does it apply to skincare?

Secure attachment is the ability to trust that your needs will be met with care and consistency. In skincare, it means building a relationship with your skin based on trust—nurturing it with products and practices that strengthen and soothe.

How can this serum and ritual help with negative self-talk?

The ritual integrates affirmations and reflective questions that replace self-criticism with compassion. Pairing these with physical care helps create new, positive associations between your reflection and self-worth.

What are EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) and IFS (Internal Family Systems), and how are they used in this ritual?

- EFT: Uses techniques like tapping to calm your body and shift negative emotional cycles.
- IFS: Encourages acknowledgment of the parts of you that feel insecure or critical, offering them compassion instead of judgment.
This ritual adapts both modalities to help you regulate emotions and connect to yourself.

Why is emotional regulation important for skin health?

Stress triggers cortisol production, which weakens your skin barrier, increases redness, and causes breakouts. Emotional regulation helps lower stress, which, when combined with this serum, creates healthier, more resilient skin.

What kind of results can I expect, and how soon will I see them?

You’ll notice immediate hydration, smoother skin, and less redness. Over 4 weeks, you’ll see improved barrier strength, reduced sensitivity, and long-lasting radiance.

How does this serum create a long-term difference compared to other products?

Its clinically tested formula strengthens the skin barrier, protects against cortisol damage, and provides hydration that adapts to your skin’s needs, delivering results that last far beyond application.

Will it really help my makeup last longer?

Yes! The serum creates a grippy, breathable layer that locks makeup in place, resisting fading, patchiness, and humidity.