An oil serum for your most sensitive spots—soothing, hydrating, and easing tension with every touch. It helps reduce friction, calms irritation, and improves suppleness for permission to relax and enjoy. Self-care, self-pleasure, or post-intimacy recovery, it's the ultimate release, helping you let go—one smooth stroke at a time.
2.4 fl oz.
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Mental health expert-approved + gynecologist + 95.5% natural/organic
- Vegan & cruelty-free
- Silicone & alcohol-free
- No hormone-disrupting ingredients
- Gluten & synthetic fragrance-free
- No parabens, SLS, phthalates
- Pregnancy safe
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How to Use
Step 1: Use the dropper and dispense onto tense areas or erogenous zones in need of tender touch and safe stimulation. Massage gently into your neck, breasts, inner thighs while focusing on relaxing your muscles.
Step 2: Apply liberally externally, as needed for self-pleasure or pre- or post- intercourse to delicate skin folds. Use your fingers to softly stimulate with lingering strokes for deeper relaxation and enhanced sensation.
Step 3: Breathe deeply into your pelvic floor (aka the muscles that hold your pee and emotions), letting the breath expand and release tension to make space for practicing pleasure.
Full List of Ingredients
Carthamus Tinctorius (Safflower) Seed Oil, Copaifera Officinalis (Balsam Copaiba) Resin, Schisandra Chinensis Fruit Extract, Tocopherol (Vitamin E), Arnica Montana Flower Extract, Helianthus Annuus (Sunflower) Seed Oil, Citrus Grandis (Grapefruit) Peel Oil, Caprylic/Capric Triglyceride.
SUSTAINABILITY PRACTICES
Made with only eight intentionally sourced ingredients, 95.5% certified organic/natural
Sustainable glass sourced from Europe to minimize carbon footprint
Local Impact:
Formulated and manufactured in the USA in solar-powered facilities all under one roof minimizing transportation, reduces energy use, and lowering our carbon footprint.
Low Energy, High Impact:
We use cold processing for our formulas, which conserves energy and keeps carbon emissions to a minimum.
What causes discomfort during intimacy?
When you the bareness of vulnerability has you feeling stiff, we soothe your most sensitive spots to help you let go.
Emotional Stress and Cortisol
Have a vulnerability hangover? Stress and emotional trauma can cause muscle tightness in the pelvic floor and reduce natural lubrication. This combo of tension and dryness makes intimacy physically uncomfortable and emotionally difficult.
Shallow Breathing + Too Much Sitting
Anxiously rushing, short of breath, binge-watch brain-melting TV for hours, tightens and restricts blood flow to the pelvic floor. Instead of feeling pleasure in your bones, constant tension screams pain from weakness and tightness when the pressure is on to relax.
Perfectionism & Guarding
The pressure to meet impossible standards builds a wall, keeping you distant. Fear of judgment blocks relaxation, but embracing acceptance helps soften your defenses pelvic floor muscles to comfortably practice pleasure
Hormonal Changes
Society's shame around natural bodily functions can make us self-conscious, and that emotional sensitivity spikes cortisol levels. Chronic stress and muscle tension disrupt oxytocin, stunting bonding, connection, and the ability to relax enough to fully let go.
For Celebrating Your Most Pleasurable Moments
Not like the other lubes. Self-Disclosure is formulated to release your stress, enhance ‘slip’ and stimulate pleasure.
Soothing Moisture
Safflower Seed Oil:
Deeply moisturizes and helps calm dry, irritated skin
Healing Relief
Copaiba Balsam:
Reduces swelling and provides soothing relief to irritated skin
Arnica Montana Flower:
Supports the healing process of inflamed skin, promoting relief
Supports Barrier Regeneration
Vitamin E:
Strengthens the skin’s barrier and aids in skin repair
Sunflower Seed Oil:
Enhances moisture retention and fortifies the skin’s protective barrier
Boosts Skin Bounce
Schisandra Chinensis:
Improves skin resilience and helps maintain elasticity
Grapefruit Peel:
Promotes smoother skin by improving texture and tone
SOMATIC SKIN RITUAL
What do you feel when you touch yourself?
I feel disconnected and unsure. There's a lot of pressure to look or feel a certain way, and sometimes it's hard to just relax or enjoy it. It's hard to fully let go or be present without worrying about what’s ‘right’ or ‘expected.’”
They might avoid it because it feels too risky, emotionally taxing, or overwhelming, preferring to keep things surface-level to protect themselves from potential pain or disappointment.
Step 1: Set the Scene
Find a quiet space, sit comfortably, and take a few deep breaths. Touch your body—feel the weight of your arms, your legs, your torso—and really ground yourself in the moment. Now, rub your hands together to warm them up. The warmth signals to your body that it’s time to relax and connect. This isn’t about performance, it’s about being present with yourself.
Step 2: Apply & Tune In
Dispense the formula onto tense spots like your neck, thighs, or pelvic area, and start massaging in, focusing on how it feels. Notice the areas where you feel tight or disconnected—be curious, not critical.
Step 3: Breathe Deeply
Apply more product to your pelvic area and gently massage the formula in, using your fingertips to stimulate and relax. As you do this, breathe deeply into your pelvic floor, allowing the breath to soften and expand the area. Focus on the sensation of warmth, release, and the feeling of your body letting go with each breath.
Step 4: Reframe Discomfort with Tender Touch
As you continue to massage, ask yourself, “What do I feel when I touch myself?” Notice if discomfort or resistance arises—don’t judge it. Use gentle strokes with the product to stimulate and create space for release. Let the touch be a reminder that vulnerability is safe, and pleasure is always within reach.
Step 5: Connect and Let Go
Place your hands gently on your body, feeling warmth and connection. Close your eyes, breathe deeply, and accept whatever sensations arise. No pressure, no expectation—just be present and let your body take the lead.
FAQs
WHY IS IT CALLED SELF DISCLOSURE?
- Sexual shame exists and feeling unsafe in your own body doesn’t feel good. Getting intimate with yourself (from processing feels to physical touch) creates a comfy space for exploration.
- This emotional stress can lead to pain, discomfort, and the absence of sexual agency in the pursuit of pleasure. When you don’t feel safe, it’s harder for you to relax, ease into vulnerability, and feel aroused — this can make sexual activity uncomfortable and even painful.
- Being intimate requires vulnerability, a gentle and loving self-touch, and is vital in creating closeness with yourself, especially before others.
- Our serum is created with ingredients that help to soothe the nervous system, reduce stress, and act as an aphrodisiac.
WHAT IS SELF DISCLOSURE IN PSYCHOLOGY?
Self-disclosure refers to the process of revealing personal, intimate information about oneself to others. Self-disclosure is considered a key aspect of developing closeness and intimacy with others, including friends, romantic partners, and family members.
IS SELF DISCLOSURE A LUBRICANT?
This intimacy serum has not been approved by the FDA as a medical-grade lubricant. It is gyno-tested and intentionally created to help alleviate pre/post sex discomfort, externally stimulate pleasure, and promote physical exploration.
WHAT IS AN ADAPTOGEN?
Adaptogens are components of herbal medicines that have been used for hundreds of years in various cultures to improve the body's resilience in dealing with physical and emotional stresses.
HOW MUCH SHOULD I USE PER SESSION?
Try 2-3 drops on external genitals, or other sensitive areas on your body that you’d like to explore and nourish. Then go where the mood takes you.
CAN I USE SELF DISCLOSURE WITH A CONDOM OR LATEX TOY?
We do not recommend using the intimacy serum with latex condoms or silicone toys. Your favorite hand or fingers will do the trick.
IS SELF DISCLOSURE PREGNANCY SAFE?
Yes.